Fear of beauty and ugliness

Where does the fear of beauty and ugliness come from?

Your battle, from your being:

Your morning does not begin with the mirror but with inner mourning.

Have you ever wondered why you dislike your face?

Why are you ashamed of your height?

Is this your thinking or a punishment given by someone else?

Maybe you did not choose all this yourself.

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Is your height short?

Is your complexion pale?

Do you have a nose that is slightly thicker than usual or teeth that are slightly misaligned?

These are things that you inherited.

But your society made them your punishment.

And you?

You are dying every day at the hands of these same things. The smile of childhood is lost in a joke.

Remember the day when someone said with a laugh:

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“You are so short!”

Or someone teased you by calling you “black”?

You probably tried to laugh in response,

But something died inside your heart.

You felt ashamed of your existence for the first time.

For the first time, you hated the mirror.

And this hatred grew day by day.

These are not jokes.

Laughter conceals these hidden wounds.

And unfortunately, we avoid these wounds by calling them “trivial.”

But they create a silence inside us.

That does not let us sleep for years.

The enemy is not the mirror; it is your eyes.

When you look in the mirror,

You see something that the world has taught you.

That face, which may not be like a model’s

Or that height, which is not tall like a hero

Then you start to consider yourself a failure.

But the real question is

“Who said that only tall height and a fair face are beautiful?”

The mirror shows you as you are.

He doesn’t hate you.

He doesn’t make you weak.

It’s your own eyes that oppress.

When you consider yourself “imperfect” with your own eyes,

The world will make you “weak.” Your beauty, hidden behind your sorrows

Your smile, which could have lit up your face,

Is now hidden.

You believe that others are reluctant to view your face.

You think people will laugh at your height.

Your laugh, your walk, your speech — everything is suppressed.

This feeling arises simply because you believe you are “lesser.” Have you ever looked at yourself openly?

Have you ever thought that maybe your voice, your thoughts, your words

Make you special? No, because you only see the things

that society calls “flaws.”

Recognize the chains of fear.

This fear, which doesn’t let you sleep —

This is the largest confinement within your heart.

This is the chain that doesn’t let you move forward.

This is the obstacle that teaches you to hate yourself.

Have you ever sacrificed your dreams just because

You felt you were not worthy of them on the outside?

How many relationships, opportunities, and dreams have been sacrificed —

Have you fallen victim to the fear of your height and face?

The truth is… there is no one like you.

There are billions of people in the world,

but only one like you.

Your smile, your style, your tone, your silence —

All these things make you unique.

If you consider yourself inferior,

Then the world will claim to be better than you.

But the day you accept yourself,

That day the world will salute you.

The new definition of beauty: inner beauty

Beauty is not only what the eyes see.

but what touches the heart.

If beauty were only on the face,

Then all fair-skinned people would be angels.

And all short people would be considered failures.

But have you ever noticed?

that a dignified, confident person stands out everywhere, even if he is short?

Have you ever considered?

that when a beautiful girl speaks with her accent, manners, and intelligence

that people forget her complexion?

Allah created you just as you should be.

The Quran says:

“لَقَدْ خَلَقْنَا الإِنسَانَ فِي أَحْسَنِ تَقْوِيمٍ”

(We have certainly created man in the best mold.)

—Surah At-Tin

You are Allah’s creation.

Every trace of your face, every inch of your height—

Allah’s knowledge and wisdom created everything.

So whoever objects to what Allah has created

is actually objecting to Allah’s wisdom.

Hazrat Bilal (RA)—An Example

Hazrat Bilal (RA) was Black, a slave, and of average height.

But faith, love, and belief made him a pillar of Islam.

Today, when we say “Bilal,”

We do not remember his appearance.

but his greatness.

The first step of change:

Every great journey begins with “acceptance.”

Until you ‘re ready to believe that

“I am perfect just as I am.”

You will remain a prisoner in the eyes of others.

Accepting yourself is not a weakness.

It is the greatest courage.

When you look in the mirror,

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and say to your heart:

“Yes, I am fine, just as I am.”

Then that day brings a revolution within you.

People’s attitudes change with your confidence.

The world respects only those

who consider themselves worthy of respect.

If you are always bowing down, hiding, and being ashamed,

Then the world will ignore you.

But the day you stand up straight,

and speaks with confidence.

That day your height will not seem short.

Your face will not seem weak.

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Rather, the weight of your words will convince people of your personality.

People see what you show yourself.

You feel like people are laughing at your complexion.

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But have you ever tried to ignore their gaze?

Often we ourselves make ourselves “inferior.”

and the world only takes advantage of our weaknesses.

If you consider yourself strong, beautiful, and valuable

Then the world does not dare to consider you light.

Expressing inner beauty

Beauty is not what is visible only to the eyes.

but what touches the heart.

Your language, your morals, your thinking.

This is all your true identity.

If you are pure from within,

Your words, tone, and presence will then radiate purity.

will illuminate the hearts of people.

How does self-confidence come?

Self-confidence is not magic.

It is a habit.

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Keep reminding yourself with small actions that you are enough.

✦ Tell yourself every day, “I am beautiful, I am perfect just the way I am.”

✦ Every time someone makes a joke, say to yourself, “This is their ignorance, not my reality.”

✦ Smile every time you look in the mirror—this is the biggest victory.

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Your body, your trust

Your height, color, voice, gait —

Allah has bestowed all these upon you.

This is your gift, your pride.

If you hate your body,

Then you are actually criticizing the creation of your Lord.

Change comes when light comes from within.

Just a small candle is enough to light up a dark night.

When you are satisfied from within,

Your presence alone becomes a light.

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Remember! The world wants to hear from everyone who loves themselves.

Whoever accepts themselves

The world starts gathering around them.

Then the same face that you considered “weak”

The world starts to be “impressed” by it.

When you find Allah, the world’s view becomes meaningless.

The real power lies in Allah’s pleasure.

When you satisfy Allah,

Then the world’s likes or dislikes become meaningless to you.

Your face, your color, your height.

Allah has determined all these factors.

And when the Creator is satisfied,

Then what is the importance of the words of the creation?

The Prophet of Allah (ﷺ) never judged anyone by their appearance.

Did you know?

The Prophet (ﷺ) never rejected or considered anyone inferior based on their complexion, height, or appearance Fear of beauty and ugliness

Hazrat Jalibib (RA)’s face was not “beautiful” by common standards,

But the Prophet (ﷺ) arranged their marriage himself.

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Why?

This is because the true beauty lies in faith, character, and sincerity.

The closer you come to Allah, the higher your personality becomes.

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When you connect with your Lord,

A light comes to your eyes.

effectiveness to your tongue,

dignity to your manner,

and peace comes to your heart.

When you get rid of people’s fear of people

The fear of people only lasts

as long as your heart is weak.

But the day you connect with Allah,

That day liberates the power within you.

Then you will not be afraid of criticism.

nor of ridicule,

nor of rejection of relationships,

nor of loneliness.

The day you smile and say to yourself, “I am enough.”

And that day will come…

When you wake up in the morning

And look in the mirror and say:

“I am not weak; I am perfect — just as Allah made me, just as I am beautiful.”

On that day,

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The world will see you as you see yourself.

Your height, your face, your gait.

All will become your identity — with a sense of pride.

Now the decision is in your hands.

❖ Either you live your whole life in fear of people.

❖ Or accept yourself, connect with Allah, and show the world that your “weakness” is your “strength.”

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Conclusion: There is no one like you.

There is no one like you in the world.

And this is the greatest strength.

Your uniqueness is your gift, your strength.

Remember —Fear of beauty and ugliness

“The day you come out of the fear of your appearance and height, people will accept this as your strength.”

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